I AM FIRE…

if you want something salty and sweet, with no opinion,

I AM NOT THE WOMAN FOR YOU. I spit flames,     often.

I AM FIRE…

if you want something salty and sweet, with no opinion,

I AM NOT THE WOMAN FOR YOU. I spit flames,     often.

I AM FIRE…

if you want something salty and sweet, with no opinion,

I AM NOT THE WOMAN FOR YOU. I spit flames,     often.

-Janne

Robinson

-Janne

Robinson

-Janne

Robinson

I’m Lolita, a 20something, who lives with her dog, and is trying to figure out her life. Women inspire me and I want to help women love themselves. I want to show you that’s there’s happiness after failure, heartbreak, and everything else we may struggle with. I have lived, loved, lost, gained, and succeeded. I want women to know that they are not alone. You don’t have to feel alone. I want you to take control of your life and make your dreams come true.

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I’m Lolita, a 20something, who lives with her dog, and is trying to figure out her life. Women inspire me and I want to help women love themselves. I want to show you that’s there’s happiness after failure, heartbreak, and everything else we may struggle with. I have lived, loved, lost, gained, and succeeded. I want women to know that they are not alone. You don’t have to feel alone. I want you to take control of your life and make your dreams come true.

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