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How to Get Your Sh*t Together

Sometimes life can feel off balance and off-kilter. When my husband and I separated, I didn't know what to do next.  I was living in a city that I hated, I had no friends around me,  and my job was paying me way less than what I deserved. I wallowed then I decided I needed to get my shit together. Then I wallowed some more. This went on for a while. For two months,[...]


What You Should Do If You’re Broke

Being broke sucks. Not being able to afford the things or the life you want can be overwhelming. Fortunately, there are several steps you can take to change your financial situation. If you are unsure of what you should do if you're broke, I'm here to help.  Change The Way You Think About Money Before you can do anything to change your situation, you need to change[...]


Change Your Relationship With Money

Have you heard of the law of attraction? Essentially, you are what you attract. Think of it as karma. You put out good to the universe, you get good back. With the law of attraction, you set your intentions with the universe. I was so used to saying that life sucks, and I was always broke. I stayed in that mindset for a long time. I changed my thinking, and so many go[...]

Books Written By Black Female Authors

It is often rare to read books and relate to every experience as a black woman. It's extremely difficult to live as a black woman in America. We are perceived as a threat. We are perceived as loud, obnoxious, and angry. Like Amanda Seales said, "I'm not hostile. I'm passionate." We're a stereotype. If you don't know what a stereotype is, it's an over-generalized idea[...]

Sometimes you need some quotes to get you through

Quotes To Get You Through

You ever had a day that was just hard? Everything, from the moment you wake up, feels off? Food tastes bland, you have a monstrous headache, nothing goes your way. I have those days every once in a while and it can be hard to break out of. I try to pay attention to my feelings on those days. Some days the reasoning could be because I lack the motivation to do things o[...]


20 Best Feel Good Movies To Watch

With the Coronavirus pandemic and protests about George Floyd’s murder, it can be difficult to see the good in the world. It can send you down a dark hole with no hope of seeing any change. Mental help is extremely important, especially now. To get me out of a dark mindset, I do everything I can. My self-care routine helps me stay in a positive mindset. This include[...]