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How to Get Your Sh*t Together

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Sometimes life can feel off balance and off-kilter. When my husband and I separated, I didn’t know what to do next.  I was living in a city that I hated, I had no friends around me,  and my job was paying me way less than what I deserved. I wallowed th[...]

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What You Should Do If You’re Broke

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Being broke sucks. Not being able to afford the things or the life you want can be overwhelming. Fortunately[...]

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Change Your Relationship With Money

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Have you heard of the law of attraction? Essentially, you are what you attract. Think of it as karma. You pu[...]

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Hey, I'm Lolita, I'm a 20something who has lived, loved, lost, gained, failed, and succeeded. Women inspire me. I want to help women love themselves. I want to show you that’s there’s happiness after failure, heartbreak, and everything in between.

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