The Almost Relationship

I was 18 when I fell in love for the first time. My first love broke my heart as most loves do. I barely remember the first couple of months after my heart got broken for the first time. I was in college, and it was a heavy rotation of going to class, drinking, smoking weed, and sleeping with guys I could care less about. At a party held at my best friend’s house, I[...]


Lessons to Learn from Bad Breakups

Breakups can be soul-crushing, energy-snatching, and heartbreaking pain in the ass. You trust another person to love you, trust you, and stick with you only for you to break up. Everyone processes breakups differently. There are some who drown their sorrows in wine and ice cream. There are some who sleep with others until they forgot who broke their hearts. Like the s[...]

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The Dating Commandments

One of the most scariest things in life, in my opinion, is dating. Starting over with someone new feels exhausting. Having to teach someone who you are, the things you like, the things you don’t like, and letting them into your heart is intense. I hate the awkwardness in the beginning and the waiting. Oh God, the waiting. Waiting to call them, waiting for them to ca[...]


What To Do If You’ve Been Ghosted

Being ghosted is the fucking worse. So many people have been ghosted but unsure of what the action is called. When you are ghosted that means that someone left you without a word. Like a ghost, they disappeared. Instead of breaking up with you or being honest, they just disappear without a trace. It’s not just a “man thing” women ghost people too. For you every[...]